The Road Less Traveled Part II

"But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed." Luke 5: 16

The Road less traveled includes an intimate walk with the Father. What exactly is an intimate walk with the Father? It is a relationship filled with the love of the Father. The majority of people live at such a speed, that, we really don’t value slowing down to “BE” with Him. My heart has been concerned for quite some time that we “know more about God” than we honestly “know Him”. The information we obtain through sermons, conferences, books, podcasts, worship music, and devotions doesn’t develop the intimacy Jesus had with the Father but somehow we are satisfied that this is enough. Along with busyness, I still find too many Plan Bs in my life choosing to trust them more than my Dad which exposes my lack of intimacy. Isn’t true intimacy developed when I choose to trust my Dad in the middle of a situation rather than trying to find my own escape through my control or my human wisdom? Jesus was so focused on His Dad that he knew when to withdraw to the lonely place to “BE” with Him. May we take note in our life!

Not one of the OT characters had the privilege of calling God, Father. It wasn’t until Jesus, God’s son, came that we see Him called Father. After Jesus redeemed us we find we have the privilege of being children because we were sent the Spirit of the Father! It was then that we were able to see God as “Abba, Father”. What a Daddy He truly is to us! Andrew Murray says,

“The worship in spirit is only possible for those to whom the Son has revealed the Father and who have received the spirit of Sonship. It is only Christ Who opens the way and teaches the worship in spirit. And so worship in spirit is worship in truth. This actual living fellowship with God is a real correspondence and harmony between the Father Who is a spirit and the child praying in the spirit.”

So much has been exposed to me about the roadblocks to this place with my Dad. Does Tom know Him? The obvious answer is sure at some level. What did I discover that kept me from deeper intimacy with my Dad? Two of those were mentioned above: busyness and Plan Bs. I learned to essentially take control of my own life at too great of a level. The other great roadblock was my need for an identity in what I did and the position that qualified me to do great works. The titles and great achievements were so deeply entrenched in my life that when they were stripped it was quite a painful process to discover that I am and will always simply “BE” His son. Now many of us would say yes brother preach it! I have got that revelation. It is quite a popular message these days. Do you really? Do you find your great pleasure in simply being His son or do you find it in the position you have been given and the great accomplishments you have achieved for the kingdom? There is a difference between knowing about the message (information) and knowing the message (lifestyle). It is such a deceptive trap and most of us don’t even know when we have been captured by those snares. It didn’t hit me until all was stripped away and the deception was broken. In the church where we treasure the titles and achievements so mightily it serves to blind us from the vision of our Dad as sons and daughters. We place great value on those with the highest positions and the ones who work the most diligently for the organization. They are considered spiritual not always because of “who” they are but because of the great value they bring because of position and works. We also love being affirmed by people and noticed for our great effort. It can actually become addicting. I saw this on my Facebook from one of the posts there that helps define what I am trying to say: In the margins…there lives a revolutionary Christianity. One with a quiet disposition that seeks to do “small things with great love,” …they are known as the “The Ordinary Radicals”. The value is put on living an ordinary life loving people in your path but not noticed because of a position or focusing on the great achievement. A Chinese house church pastor that was visiting the USA said the following: “It is amazing what the church in America can accomplish without the Holy Spirit.” OUCH! I have found that a great quote for me from time to time to remember. There is so much focus on the “DOING” that we value it too much. Jesus understood the importance of the one, the woman at the well, as much as the multitude.

For me intimacy is found by sitting silently with my Dad for long periods of time just to “BE” and then living (doing) out of my being in an ordinary way. What is the cost? The cost is removing the distractions from my life and the hectic pace by finding the place called, simple and learning to love the one. I have found that He is my Plan A and He is trustworthy but that is still at infancy level while growing. Honestly, there aren’t many people who have found the place where they treasure Him more than what they can accomplish or the position they possess. How do I know? By the lack of time we surrender to just “BE” with Him. One of the great joys since living in South Africa is learning to go around the coast to a place I call, “my monastery”. It is the joy of sitting with Him and learning to “BE”. Look at last weeks schedule and ask yourself, “Did I find time to sit with my Dad?” He really just wants you and not what you may think are all your great accomplishments.

PLEASE find the place where you can simplify your life and learn to sit at His feet just because you love Him and long to “BE” with Him! This is the road less traveled.

The Road Less Travelled Part 1

How many find the road less travelled in their lifetime? What is the “the road less travelled?” Both are legitimate questions for one to ask. For the last nine years it has been my heart’s desire to live beyond the normal routine of life. The journey for each of us is our own and to be sorted out with our Dad. My journey can’t be your journey nor can your journey be my journey. This quote by Oswald Chambers gives a glimpse of what this road may be about.

Are we prepared to pour out our lives for Him “He who believes in Me … out of his heart will flow rivers of living water”—and hundreds of other lives will be continually refreshed. Now is the time for us to break “the flask” of our lives, to stop seeking our own satisfaction, and to pour out our lives before Him. Our Lord is asking who of us will do it for Him?

Isn’t it easy to settle for the ordinary, secure and comfortable life? Of course it is! The road less travelled for me is where the man-made securities and comforts are forfeited for the sake of pouring our life out to others. It seems that we all find that place at different levels. I wrestle back and forth between: aren’t we all called to walk this way to there are only a few called to walk this way. How much of our culture has shaped our walk with Him? The ease and the comfort with which one can walk through life are surely available to many of us. Whatever the culture, economic status or social status it appears comfort in many different forms can find its way into our journey. When I read Matthew 10 it provokes my heart….

“Don’t begin by traveling to some faroff place to convert unbelievers. And don’t try to be dramatic by tackling some public enemy. Go to the lost, confused people right here in the neighborhood. Tell them that the kingdom is here. Bring health to the sick. Raise the dead. Touch the untouchables. Kick out the demons. You have been treated generously, so live generously.

“Don’t think you have to put on a fund-raising campaign before you start. You don’t need a lot of equipment. You are the equipment, and all you need to keep that going is three meals a day. Travel light. “When you enter a town or village, don’t insist on staying in a luxury inn. Get a modest place with some modest people, and be content there until you leave. (Message Bible)

The road less travelled is about your intimacy with your Dad and what comes through your life to others. It isn’t about going to some far away place (although it could be) but more about influencing the people around you. The first few sentences make our assignment pretty clear. Help us Jesus! Help me Jesus to walk with that influence. My journey still is filled with the struggle between my desires for me versus my desire for Him. The road less travelled seems to be a simple life. Cindy and I have found the place (with much more to be discovered as we never arrive obviously) where it is as simple as loving the people God puts in our path each day. We are learning to limit the distractions but still have plenty of growing there in our lives. My greatest desire right now is to have a consistent time sitting with my Dad! It is growing and I am learning to give up my rights. Our home has become a place for people to gather or to find lodging. The road less travelled has taught us to provide shelter without asking for money. People have prayed and obeyed and blessed but we are learning on this road to trust Dad for our resources. Easy? NO! I am convinced this road is calling me to discover things about Him not otherwise discovered if you weren’t willing to walk there. It is amazing how simple life can become when the material things aren’t your focus. I will give more thoughts in my next blog. I trust your heart will be stirred to find how simple this journey can be.